The tips of experienced sexual therapists are often different from “verified” recipes for passion that come from all sides. Five Secrets of Good Sex!
Good sex is planned!
Spontaneity is one of the most important things in life. They are constantly telling us about the importance of a spontaneous moment, so even when it comes to such an important issue as sex is likely to think it is best to come to it without plan.
Even everyday things we do not pay attention to, such as applying makeup, or combing, become small erotic rituals. Yes, we do not talk about dressing up on sexy lingerie!
When we know that there will be sex, the foreplay begins, and this increases the excitement – before and during the relationship itself.
Good sex is a sex that has become a part of it!
We know well – what we have a lot, does not mean us as much as we do in what we do not know. On the other hand, if we have something in abundance, if it is the best thing, we lose the idea of exclusivity.
When we get into that, sooner or later we run into a routine, we feel a bit like we are running a card at the entrance to the company
… Think of it again, because sex is an exception – frequency can increase the desire!
Frequency encourages us to experiment, to search for its own sexual identity, to change, to the dynamics under which something other than changing poses is thought to be. Even though different poses are welcomed.
Good sex involves (inter) action!
Often with anxiety we listen to friends while they report to us on Friday evening on Friday their report on their sequential lines that they collected during the week. But how much is it really good for them? Or, if it is good, is it just because they do better – do not they know? Sexual therapists say they are talking sexy!
This does not mean that you will talk about how you used to operate the curia eye around the pedicure, or the rules of quoting scientific literature in the thesis. In general, they do not recommend recalling the former coach!
But to talk about the relationship alone, yes. “I love this.” “You make me now …” “Let’s turn around.” Also, it’s better to talk positively. For example, if you are annoyed by the doggy, and you like the “butterfly”, do not say: “I hate doggy.” You’d rather say, “I love a butterfly.” And if you scream, scream!
Good sex is relaxed!
Nice sex is not limited to bed, but many of us insecure try to compensate for special acrobatic skills. They believe that during a single sex they have to “certify” the table in the kitchen, the machine, the sink.
Sex is important – do not rush! Where you are good, stay, give the opportunity and place, not just your partner and yourself. There is still room for experimenting with depth, speed, time!
… How much can you endure?
Good sex is (your) private thing!
Some believe that orgasm counts only if you and your partner experience it at the same time. Or, inevitably, you have to look into your eyes.
Just imagine how it looks when you want to combine such expectations, for example, with a “dog” position.
Technology can help somehow, but how much passion is the situation in which a guy in a relationship keeps the cell on a selfie stick in front of her, and in front of her heats up a video camera connected to the TV? It’s all gone!
If you want to grimly grasp the power of the cushion that you have pushed your head into, as this will be the most intense experience, it’s a recipe for you.
It’s not nice to be selfish in sex, but some feelings are simply not for sharing!